Kraft-Ebbing’s famous manual “Psychopathia Sexualis” declared the female sadist a natural rarity. Sadism, he believed, was in direct contrast with the nature of feminine sexuality, instead an aberration parroting masculine sexuality. We both know this is laughably antiquated. Sadism has a feminine essence & I stand as proof.
My own sadism, my desire to destroy, is really a creative impulse. What could be more female than creation? You cannot create until you break down what was there before & I prefer a fresh canvas. I relish using my boundless creativity to determine what lengths you will go to please me, like an Arthurian lady sending her knight on a quest. & though your obsession will go unrequited, I’ll toss you a scented token before you ride out to demonstrate how devoted to me you really are.
What could be more inherently feminine than the dance of a dominant’s subjugation of her submissive? My curves & sharp angles will catch your eye, mesmerizing you, drawing you in to have a closer look. Is the fiery glow around my naturally red hair a halo or a prelude to horns? You’ll approach me with caution, crawling into my web willing. You’ll mistake my lightness & laughter for laxness. Inevitably, you’ll feel at ease & speak a bit too freely. Trusting me is easy and so you’ll let me lead you away. You’ll discover while we are alone that the coquetry was a clever disguise. You will look into my eyes and realize the innocence you read in them was a ploy. You will find yourself unable to escape & unwilling to try.
“Like the lover’s pinch, which hurts & is desired.” –Anthony & Cleopatra v.2
Some of the things that please me:
- Lite to Extreme Physical Sadism [impact play, strike play, needles, OTK, cutting, et al]
- Femdom Indoctrination & Worship
- Slave Training
- CBT / NT / Ballbusting
- Hypnosis [brainwashing, altered state-programming, NLP]
- Lite to Extreme Humiliation & Degradation
- CFNM Body & Fetish Object Worship [stockings, feet, armpits, etc]
- Goddess Worship & Religious Deprogramming [conversion, ritual, confession, prayer, excommunication etc]
- Financial Domination [Human ATM / Cashpoint meet / Extortion]
- Spitting & Forced bodily fluid drinking
- Piercing, play & permanent [trained piercing professional]
- Interrogation [kidnapping, secret police, confession etc]
- Behavior Monitoring & Modification – including corporal punishment
- Domestic Servant Training
- Total Feminization/ Sissification & Femininity Lessons
- Tease and Denial
- Sensory & Sensation play
- Slut Training / Transformation
- Forced Bi
- Total Power Exchange & Contracts
- Predicaments & Challenges
- Chastity Training / Keyholding
- Pet Play [I’m a real life equestrian & dedicated dog trainer]
- Mommy Domming
- Objectification [human furniture, ashtray, rugs, etc]
- Edge play [blood, weapons, breath etc]
- Pheromone & Scent Indoctrination – My underarms are kept natural.
- Cuckolding & Cuckold Training
- Ego Assessment & Adjustment
- & etcetera, according to my whim.
My sadism & lust for ceded power is very real, I don’t consider sessions roleplay because the connection we make is not play-acting. I do, however, enjoy exploring my kinks & our connection in creative scenarios including medical play, sci-fi predicaments, abduction/hostage, castration (Hard Candy, anyone?) & mother/son dynamics. I’m never opposed to hearing a new idea.